When Grandparents Raise Grandkids

Many seniors are taking a second turn at parenting.

More than 3 million American children currently live with grandparents or other relatives. In nearly one-third of these households, grandparents are the primary caregivers.

"Divorce, single-parent families and financial hardships are just a few of the reasons why we see more grandparents stepping back into the roles of mother or father," said Nancy L. Wilson, M.A., assistant professor of geriatric medicine at Baylor College of Medicine in Houston. "This can be overwhelming for many older people and cause them to neglect their own personal and health needs."

Grandparents should recognize that maintaining their own health is critical. This means following through on doctor appointments, remembering to take prescription medications, getting plenty of rest, eating a healthy diet and reaching out for help when necessary.

"Talking with others who are in similar surrogate-parenting roles can be very helpful," says Ms. Wilson. "It's a way to exchange ideas, vent frustrations, share information and develop friendships."

Seeking support is also a way to learn information valuable to the entire family.

Resources include the child's pediatrician, teachers and school counselors. Grandparents can also take advantage of parenting courses offered by hospitals, seniors' groups and charitable organizations.

"Caring full-time for grandchildren can be challenging, but it can also help grandparents develop unique bonds with their grandchildren and strengthen relationships that can have a lasting impact on the children," Ms. Wilson says.